Eulogies

There is probably no more difficult speech to write or give than the eulogy. Eulogies work best when they are simple. They should focus on the life of the deceased and be, if possible a celebration of that life. It is worth collecting some anecdotes from those who knew the deceased well. A little gentle humour goes a long way and can be a great relief. Be sensitive to the deceased’s wishes and to the place of the service. Try and steer away from overblown sentiment and outpourings of grief. Aim for a genuine and heartfelt appreciation of the life of the deceased. None of us are perfect and now is not the time to settle scores. Ask yourself how you would wish to be remembered.

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